Grandparents are already aging and their life here on earth is already short. As a person, they usually seek satisfaction, completeness, and happiness. Since there are grandparents that rearing their grandchildren, there can be variations or change that occurs in their everyday life. Some may cope it, some don’t. However to those grandparents that choose to fight and choose to enjoy life no matter what, there’s always a corresponding reward.
From the time the grandparents decided to take the responsibility of their grandchildren their life changes. However if they do it with legal consent from the law and the parents, they would usually found peace and experience rewards. Often, when these grandparents love their grandchildren, they will enjoy and find it not difficult to rear them.
Here are the following rewards grandparents may obtain as they rear their grandchildren in a legal or peaceful way.
As they see their grandchildren growing especially if in a good way, they feel satisfied and accomplished. They would also feel these whenever their grandchildren do well in their academic level, get rewards in sports, school activities, and religious aspect. For the reason that they rear their grandchildren, they usually allow their grandchildren to inherit the customs and the history beliefs of the family that became the reason of preserving it. They can continue or maintain the family bond because they can go visit, receive and give calls, they gather through family dinners and family activities or events, and they can spend time together as a family through doing recreational activities. Doing it the right way in taking the grandchild’s responsibility may solve conflicts and misunderstanding between the parents and their children. There is presence of roles to as they rear their grandchildren such as the help in finances, they may have assistance on the household chores, and they find help in times of crisis. As they support their grandchildren in their school, the grandchild would usually do well and improved in their school behavior and social skills. With this, there is peace knowing that their grandchild is doing well. Children are often sweet and would certainly show love and affection as it was given to them by their grandparents. So this love and affection is such a wonderful reward to obtain.
The rewards may vary in accordance to the ways on how grandparents rear their grandchildren. Taking the responsibility in legal and proper way from the law and especially from their parents is a great way to experience such rewards.
Obtaining these rewards can make grandparents happy and fulfilled in life.