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My ex-girlfriend is giving me mixed signals, I still love her so much and i would love some advice.?

Q: Hey,Firstly let me give you a brief description of the relationship we had:She is my high school sweetheart, we met when i was 15 years old, she was 16 at that time. She was my first love and i was hers, we had a great relationship, mainly because we where super laid-back around each other and didn’t force anything. We spend a grand total of 4 years together and truly loved each other. Things weren’t always perfect though, I myself have had some serious problems growing up (divorced parents, living with my addicted mother, and eventually being kicked out of our house because of financial problems)But she was always there for me, and going trough all of those things with her on my side really enforced our relationship together.My life made a 180 degree spin, we where nearing our 4 year anniversary and where busy finding our own place to move in together, in a nut-shell, everything was perfect between us.That is, until 5 months ago, when i got diagnosed with a hormone disease, most likely i would be sterile and get many other horrible side effects.I didn’t have the heart to tell my girlfriend, We had been trough so many together, but i couldn’t ruin her life with this, i didn’t know what to do… so i started pushing her away and we broke up… she was devastated but i wasn’t there to support her because i was so confused. (she turned to an online friend of hers from another country who had been flirty towards her for a while, we will get to that later)After a while the doctors told me they made a mistake, i was healthy… 100% healthy (they blamed it on my body still being in puberty)So… i manned up and explained my ex the whole situation, she was very confused about the situation she didn’t know what to do, she told me she needed time for herself to figure her own life out and that she cant get back together with me. ontop of that, she has visited her online friend and made out with him, hes coming to our country for a second meet up soon and theyre constantly texting… Its getting pretty serious for a long distance rebound relationship and im affraid i have lost my chances to get back with her because of him.I would leave her be and let her live her life…. if she wouldnt keep on giving me mixed signals. she knows how i feel for her, I want nothing more then have a second chance with her. and she has told me that she still things im the most important person in her life, ontop of that she comes to me when she has issues, even complains to me sometimes about her rebound-guy, we still have alot of contact, she texts me constantly and she calls me sometimes for 45 mins just talking about cell-phone subscriptions for example… she comes over to my new apartment alot to cook diner with me and watch movies etc, sometimes she even spends the night (i sleep on the couch).all of this is initiated by her, when i told her that i still loved her the first time, she told me she didnt want to talk or see mee anymore for a long time just to have some time to get things sorted. but when i retreat and stop contacting her, she starts contacting me like i said above, calling me when im working for example because she is feeling sick, asking if i want to come over and hang out, but then when i come over, shes acting all weird as if she doesnt really want me to be there.Im not sure if im making sense to you guys, but it comes down to her sending me totally mixed signals.and im not too sure how to handle the situation. with her new boyfriend in the picture and stuff.Im still very much in love with her and she knows that.should i break all contact? should i keep in touch with her as i am doing now? should i talk to her about how she makes me feel? i dont want to scare her off into thinking im forcing her to choose.man, this is turning into a long wall of text, im so confused…ANY advice, would be greatly apreciated, id love to hear your storys aswell.thanks guys

A: The first problem here is that there have obviously been some trust issues. I realize that you’re both young, but having been together for four years, I would have to assume that this wasn’t the first and only problem you guys ever had as a couple.Conflict avoidance is not always a positive behavior. When you heard your diagnosis initially, and thought it was serious, why did you not trust her to tell her? By deciding not to tell her, you prevented her from being able to choose for herself whether or not she was going to be able to deal with your situation.I think it’s laudable that you were trying to spare her problems, but you should know that if you really love someone it doesn’t make you feel better to be excluded from their problems. If she had been in a similar situation, would you have wanted her to tell you?It’s not right in a relationship to make decisions for the other person. If they are an equal partner in the relationship, they have the right to decide for themselves.Because of this, you pushed away the thing you really wanted and now have to figure out how to try and win it back.I do sympathize with you, but you do see how your own decision sabotaged this situation for you, don’t you?All that being said, she obviously still has feelings for you if you’re still doing all the things you mentioned together. And even if there’s this other guy, it sounds like he’s far away and they haven’t really gotten to spend much time in person together.This is good news for you. Additionally, you guys have a lot of history together now, and hopefully that gives you a lot of positive things to draw upon. She has experienced a relationship with you and it sounds like she misses it.However, it does sound like she has mixed feelings. Even though you’ve told her about what happened and why you did what you did, I would suspect that even if she forgives you and understands what you were thinking… she doesn’t know if she can trust you again.This is the central problem for you now. She spent 4 years with you, and then all of the sudden you changed and didn’t tell her why and pushed her out of your life. And now you’ve decided you made a mistake and want her back? If I was her, I would have been badly hurt and even an explanation and apology wouldn’t make me decide that I wanted to put myself in that vulnerable a position again. She made herself vulnerable to you and you hurt her. Do you understand what she must feel about all of this?If you’re going to get past this, you’re going to have to talk to her about that. Let her express how what you did made her feel and own up to it. After that, you’re going to have to ask her what you can do to show her that you’ve grown up from the experience, and that contemplating losing her has made you want to change yourself. You’re going to have to ask her what you can do to earn her trust again and if that’s something that she’s willing to think about. Don’t push her. Let her have as much time as she feels she needs. You’ve kind of lost the right to push since you already pushed her away to start with, and I suspect that if you did push, you’d push her right into the arms of rebound guy.Rebound guy is just that, a rebound guy. You’re the one she spent 4 years in real life with and who she obviously still has feelings for. If you really want her, you’re going to have to earn forgiveness, not just ask for it. But if you really do this, I highly doubt that she’ll choose rebound guy over you.Don’t give up, but be serious about changing yourself. You need to trust one another more if you’re going to get through the problems of life together. Love is required, but it isn’t always enough. If you respect someone you treat them that way. She needs to see that you’ve really learned and changed, and that you respect her. If she sees this, then maybe she won’t be so terrified about the idea of trusting you again.Good luck, man.

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