if my girlfriend screws me in the **** with a strap-on am i gay?

What is the world coming to?:)Anyway, you might not be gay per se but your sexual life and practise suggested that you are. Dont listen to people tell you otherwise. I know someone who pferer his gf to ‘fingering’ him but he is not! You might have gay tendencies but sexually human is complex too. Some men like tomboy- look- alike-short hair- girl etc, doesnt mean they like sex with men? People like to put labels based on universal standards and it is up to you to make a call. SEX IT IS NOT ABOUT INDENTIFICATION BUT GRATIFICATION! Most people here a shallow and no wonder they are bitter, hostile and have boring sex life because they cant even find a partner!But hey, if you like it and your gf understands and willing to do, why not? Nobody knows what you do/did in bed (except here) and they dont have to know. It is just between you and her. Besides, strap- on is not for everyone. However, if strap -on works for you both and help to spice up your sex life and enjoy it.go ahead, explore it! No harm.

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not neccesarily “gay” but maybe a little freaky.If you let a guy do it.then your gay.I let my girl finger my *** just before I *** and I usually *** so hard I nearly pass out! And I am not gay! yes you are

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100% gay

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only if you want to be

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This is gay. This question is gay. Strap-ons where men are concerned are used when men are curious about homosexul type activities, but don’t want to get labeled so they engage in mock activities with women and say it’s all in heterosexul fun. It’s not.it’s gay. You just haven’t taken the plunge. Afterall if your girlfriend is licking your pocket ***** and saying she’s jut curious I’d raise an eyebrow. Why can’t people be honest with themselves..In this day and age..y9ou can do what you want with whom you want, but when you pansy around with things and act homophobic..you just come off as homophobic. And what’s a homophobe but someone who is afraid of something inside themselves and project that fear on others. If you like to take it in the rear, y9ou like to take it in the rear. Buck up and at leat be an honest panda.

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You might not be gay. But, it won’t be long before your anal muscles are stretched and overused to the point where you are unable to hold your bowel waste and you are unable to hold the crap in. You will have a heck of life with it running down your leg all the time.

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Dude don’t listen to the other idiots on here. Gay has nothing to do with sticking stuff in your ***. It just means that you are into experimenting with your body and exploring different ways to have sex. Gay is more than sex, it has to do with physical and emotional attraction. If you aren’t attracted to men then you are not gay. Bottom line.you are still with a girl and not a man. However, if while she is screwing you and think of a guy, then you might be gay.lol. I say go for it and have fun. There is nothing wrong with breaking out of the boring sexual norm. If you are still concerned, check the dictionary and see what the def of gay or homosexual is.

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Your gay and so is your girlfriend.

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a little bit

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No, that doesn’t make you gay. It just means you have a very open relationship with your gf.I am curious as to why your gf would want to try that.?

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If you had sex doggy style, does that make you a Saint Bernard?No, you’re not gay. Pretty much the opposite. How many gay guys would let a woman do that? None. Would you let a guy do that to you? I’m guessing not. So you like the idea of a woman in a power position and the mixture of the feminine body with the masculine social role. That’s not gay. More often than not, gay men are attracted to masculine bodies (the whole package, not just the penis) regardless of social roles. If you’re really concerned, take a class in human sexuality and figure yourself out. But no, this does not make you gay.All it proves is the following 3 things:1. You have a prostate.2. You may be a bit submissive.3. You’re definitely a lot kinky.

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Fu-ck u and ya

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it does not means that it is gay, it just meant that you are having sexual fun with your girlfriend. if both of you enjoys it then its alright. besides the fact, that if you do it with a guy, then perhaps i think its something wrong. it is not right to do with a guy. anyway its your girlfriend. so it should be alright.

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It just means that you are willing to let her have a turn about as fair play. You are only gay if you are attracted to men in a sexual way.

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no you are not gay. But if you are attracted to males then yes you are.

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Gay; Of, relating to, or having a sexual orientation to persons of the same sex. I have screwed straight dudes, who had girlfriends, not because they were gay but because getting jerked off while getting screwed is like no other feeling on earth. If you want a boyfriend then youre probably a ‘mo. If you like girls then you are straight. If it feels good then go nuts.

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Far from it. My wife has used a strap on many times on me. It has nevr caused me to start wanting to have sex with another guy. I know that it is a female doing it to me. She enjoys it, so why shouldn’t I do it. a lot of guys enjoy having a woman stick a finger up the ***. The only difference is the strap on is bigger. My wives loves it when she can be the “guy” and have me “suck her” or “give it to me”. It’s all fun and games.

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Well your not headed towards MANLY,

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Only if you suck on it after you ***.

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You should know if your gay.

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no you like both sides.

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Only you know if you are gay .. or bi-sexual. Are you attracted to men ? Otherwise, the answer is NO ! My girl friend and I began experimenting with toys and light bondage over a year ago. It is a very trusting and sensual experience to be restrained while your lover pleases you. We are not into pain or whips or anything like that – just pleasure . and lots of it. Recently, she decided to try using a strap-on on me while I was restrained. I was nervous at first but agreed. We both enjoyed it. The sensation was pleasurable (prostrate stimulation is not for everyone but I have found that if I let myself relax . I can enjoy it), but what we both really got off on was her being in control and as she put it, “you get to feel what it is like to have your lover inside of you”. I big part of it was her being in control, and me being submissive (used to always be the other way around). She actually orgasms during the act, sometimes more than once,.. she really gets into the control part !! And to be honest, I enjoy the submissive part a lot more than I thought I would. It is an incredible release for me. We take turns swapping roles so when it is my turn to be in charge, she is well taken care of also. And it has nothing at all to do with homosexual tendancies .. I have no desire to have sex with men .. Feel free to holler at me mikeallen555555 on yahoo of course

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No your not