How soon should i go to the doctor after i find out i’m pregnant

How soon should i go to the doctor after i find out i’m pregnant?

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Why has my husband gone cold, or is he being practical?

Q: I’ve asked a question on my husband before, adn don’t really want to go into all the details again, but in summary ; We have been married just over two months, I am pregnant with our first child, (we each have an 18 yr old from previous relationships.My husband was very affectionate to me before marriage. He even posted pictures of me on his facebook and would talk about his love for me. This stopped as soon as we married (we were only together a few months before marriage). He deleted his pictures of me, and even friends commented on his sudden lack of interest on me. He stopped cuddling me, holding my hand, kissing me except for sex.He told me a few weeks after our wedding that he didn’t know if he lived me anymore, and asked that i stay at my parents on the floor a few times a week so he could watch tv with his son and chill. I did a few times, but missed him.I’ve been with his since, but he has now decided that I should find a place of my own for a few months, then he’ll find either a house big enough for his son and a baby, or a new area and his son move back to his mums (which he wants). This is all due to take place a month before the baby is due.I have found somewhere, but it means buying new furniture and its riddled with damp – I really am stressed at the prospect! I want to be with my husband – if he were i the army it’d be different, but he doesn’t even work, and the only reason he wants me to move is so he can spend time playing on the Wii with his son, though he still wants me to stay a few times a week with him.Yesterday I found out that someone with a 3 bed house, in a great location wants to swap with his house, he is not interested as he says he’s unwilling to “give uo the security of his house, move his son, and then we don’t work out”. I find this comment unacceptable – either you marry and *hope* that it works, and try to make it, or you stay casual dating… I’m confused and hurt!He’s worried because I wasn’t happy that he told me he planned to go away with friends when the baby is a month old (friends he never sees, but are on facebook~) and he’d go even if I were living miles from my family, He also announced that he wants us to socialise separately (he never takes me anywhere now) rather than stay home with me and baby.He doesn’t like my son. I went to my parents to see him, he needed to go uptown and it was freezing and snowing, My husband refused to give him a lift even though we were going up there, saying the walk would do him food. Yesterday though I needed to get my inhaler from the chemist, my husband refused to as he wanted to give his son a life, in the opposite direction to where we were going… and my dad had to take me to the doctor later in the day.It was his idea to marry, he kind of hurried me into it, i thought it was too fast, but was charmed by him. The baby is his and we didn’t find out I was pregnant until two days before the weddingHow do i resolve this… all I want is my husband to treat me and baby like a family, instead he says his son is his only family? How do I get him to face up to his responsibilities and see how much he is confusing and hurting me?

A: Hi,firstly im sorry to hear your sitaution, it must be very difficult for you.i just wanted to ask you, how did you two meet? and why did you get married so quickly?Because maybe he wanted to marry you for his own security, so he has someone to look after him. I understand his situation as he is trying to do the best for his son but he should also be apart of your life, your sons like and the baby.If he does not love you or does not change are you willing to leave him?There are many issues that need to be addressed but most importantly your health, so please try not to worry. I think you should recieve counselling to help to talk about issues, so you dont get stressed out which may effect the baby. I do not mean this from a judgemental point of view, i am only suggesting counselling as i believe it is a good way to deal with problems, feelings and issues.I know you love him and care for him, but he does not help you financially, emotionally and domestically so, why are you still with him? again i dont mean this in a critical way, i am just curious. Have you got any friends that can talk to you?I will check this page again soon, i hope everything does work out for you as you need support at this crucial time.

Husband doesn’t want to live with me?

Q: I’ve asked a question on my husband before, adn don’t really want to go into all the details again, but in summary ; We have been married just over two months, I am pregnant with our first child, (we each have an 18 yr old from previous relationships. My husband was very affectionate to me before marriage. He even posted pictures of me on his facebook and would talk about his love for me. This stopped as soon as we married (we were only together a few months before marriage). He deleted his pictures of me, and even friends commented on his sudden lack of interest on me. He stopped cuddling me, holding my hand, kissing me except for sex.He told me a few weeks after our wedding that he didn’t know if he lived me anymore, and asked that i stay at my parents on the floor a few times a week so he could watch tv with his son and chill. I did a few times, but missed him.I’ve been with his since, but he has now decided that I should find a place of my own for a few months, then he’ll find either a house big enough for his son and a baby, or a new area and his son move back to his mums (which he wants). This is all due to take place a month before the baby is due.I have found somewhere, but it means buying new furniture and its riddled with damp – I really am stressed at the prospect! I want to be with my husband – if he were i the army it’d be different, but he doesn’t even work, and the only reason he wants me to move is so he can spend time playing on the Wii with his son, though he still wants me to stay a few times a week with him.Yesterday I found out that someone with a 3 bed house, in a great location wants to swap with his house, he is not interested as he says he’s unwilling to “give uo the security of his house, move his son, and then we don’t work out”. I find this comment unacceptable – either you marry and *hope* that it works, and try to make it, or you stay casual dating… I’m confused and hurt!He’s worried because I wasn’t happy that he told me he planned to go away with friends when the baby is a month old (friends he never sees, but are on facebook~) and he’d go even if I were living miles from my family, He also announced that he wants us to socialise separately (he never takes me anywhere now) rather than stay home with me and baby.He doesn’t like my son. I went to my parents to see him, he needed to go uptown and it was freezing and snowing, My husband refused to give him a lift even though we were going up there, saying the walk would do him food. Yesterday though I needed to get my inhaler from the chemist, my husband refused to as he wanted to give his son a life, in the opposite direction to where we were going… and my dad had to take me to the doctor later in the day.How do i resolve this… all I want is my husband to treat me and baby like a family, instead he says his son is his only family?don’t think he is cheating at the moment – right now he won’t leave the house

A: Please do us all a favour and ditch the a$$hole. You’re husband is a complete moron and should never ever even have had the title as “your husband”. He sounds like a stupid low life idiot who’s still in love with his ex and doesn’t want anything to do with you. It sounds like to me that he was using you to make hes ex jealous. AKA- All the facebook drama.Do your baby, your family and you good, by leaving him. And start by moving into that new place and getting a divorce. And no he will never smarten up.. So when you tell him you want a divorce and he says, “Oh, i’ll change, please don’t leave me”, just slam the door in his face. Leave him, and don’t EVER let him back into your life. Plus I think your family would be happy to see that poor excuse of a person gone. He’s a waste of skin and bones.. Lazy and selfish. I can see that, why can’t you?

I’m about 2 months in and..i know nothing about having a baby!what are the risk factors i should be aware of?

Q: I’m not going to tell my age..but this is a unplanned pregnancy and i’m about 2 months pregnant.I was told my friends and family that the first trimester is the worst,because of miscarrying(exuse my spelling).i was wondring if were a healthy person and you take good care of yourself should there still be a miscarry..i mean like would i still have one…And how soon should you make and appt for your doctor after you’ve found out your pregnant? I really dont want to be judged by this question.i’m just worried.Thanks!I wanted to let everyone know that i found out monday 2/11.that i was expecting..does that mean i have to have a doctor appt by friday?

A: Well as soon as you find out that you are pregnant you should set up an appointment. It is very important in the first trimester that you get enought folic acid in your diet to prevent down syndrome amongst other things. What your friends and family are trying to say is that the risk of having a miscarriage is higher in the first trimester because this is the most crucial time of the baby’s development and yes, you can still have a miscarriage after the first trimester even if you take the best care of yourself. I am sure you will be fine it’s just that there might be something genetically wrong that can cause a miscarriage. If not, chances of that happening are really low if you take good care of yourself. When you make the appointment tell them it is prenatal so you can get one as soon as possible so you can get started on your prenatal vitamins. This has everything you and the baby need and a fair amount of folic acid.Try getting the book what to expect when you are expecting and this will shed some light on the whole process (doctor’s appointments, what’s happening with your body and the baby, etc.)When you go to the doctor he is going to test your urine, blood pressure and weight (this happens everytime you go). He will also have you do a whole bunch of blood work and all the paperwork are done here too. He’ll probably schedule an ultrasound. If you need to talk to someone, feel free to email me @ [email protected]. Take care and don’t be scared.