What do I do? I’m pregnant and my dad just yells and won’t let me talk. I don’t talk with my family. What do I do, he hates me

What do I do? I’m pregnant and my dad just yells and won’t let me…?

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Try and write your father a letter. This way he will know how you feel and you will be able to say what you need to say.

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my lifes effed up…!?

Q: my family is annoying. they treat me and my sister so different.shes older than me and whenever she does anything wrong my parents don’t say ****. she’ll sit there and talk bck to them and yell at them but they don’t give two fwks. they just say okay.on the other hand if i even ask my mom to fwkin make me something to eat she’ll go off on me.i never say anything back to them cuz i know they’re jus gonna yell at me and i’m not gonna get anywhere in life…………….my sister and i are both not allowed to date..yet my sister is going against the rentz and going out with this one guy.she almost fwkin got pregnant…my parents don’t know and she always makes me cover up for her. now i don’t do that shiiiiit no more and she goes off on me. i hate him anyway cuz hes stupid[[like literally stupid..he can’t spell for crap and he thinks hes the shit when hes a fwkin piece of shit]] no one likes him. she doesn’t care about anyone anymore and she’s losing all her friends bcuz she apparently “loves” him. shes fwkin 15.and she doesn’t love him. she sits online and talks to him alll freakin dayy cuz the rentz won’t get her a fone.i asked for the dayum computer for like 1 hr. and she like wants to kill me…i’d freakin be happy if she did. at least they wudn’t have shit to wry about and i wudn’t have to live this gay life. honestly i just wanna die….i wanna freakin go to sleep tonight and never wake up again!!!!! someone kill me..please don’t tell me to talk to her or have any contact with her what-so-ever..cuz i’m not evn gonna talk to her anymore unless its important..whats the dayum point..i’m just gonna get yelled at.she wants to go to the mall tomorrow with her friends and honestly i don’t wanna go but i have to..cuz they won’t let me stay home alone and dads gonna be at work and moms going with..i’m just gonna ignore her. HELPPPP!!!!! WHAT CAN I DO!?!?!?!Yesterday….it was my sister, me, and a couple of our friends…all because of my sisters fwkin bf.we almost died.so this is wht happendwe were all just sitting on my friends bed and we found out that my sisters bf was at our friends house cuz her bros are friends wit him..but her bros didn’t know they are going out..so my sis and all of us got ready to just go over there and chill wit our friend.the guys were just chllin outside nd we wud have to go past them to go inside..my sister freaked out.her bf was fwkin staring at us while we were walking in and my friends bros were lookin at him like wtf..so we just said hi to her bros and walked in.she was inside and we just chilld there for a while..my sis was happy that she had got to see him.but then they came inside and we left back to my other friends house…we got there and my sister and her bf were dying to hang out. and my friend was wanting to help them i told them so many dayum times this was a bad idea but no.so my friend sped to go pick up her dad and we all almost crashed cuz she can’t drive for shiit!?!?!? i really really really need them to break up b4 we end up doing something realy stupid for them to hang out and my parents find outt!!!!there are trails in our neighborhood so we told them they cud meet up there as long as no one noticed so they did. but funny thing is neither of them knew the dayum trail and we told them so many times which way to go..we were waiting in the car for them to hurry up..but then we decided to go scare them.we got out of the car and walked around quietly for a while..but we didn’t know where they were..we cudn’t find them.and then my friends fone rang.it was her dad and she had to go pick him up from work.if he found where we were we wud have been dead.so we ran around like maniacs trying to find them.then they finally called and he told us that he had dropped her off at our house..which wasn’t possible cuz we wud have been dead if we weren’t wit her..so we ran back home which was like a mile and a half of running..we were all so dayum scared..then we find out she wasnt evn at home she was standing like 3 houses down..so everything was okay..but we almost died because of him..2 extra details are out of order!last two need to be switched

A: It’s time for you to sit down with your parents and have an extremely mature conversation. If you cannot talk to them then you need to talk to another adult whom you trust who can talk to them. If you are seriously considering suicide then you can also call one of these hotlines and they will not report you…but instead will give you tips on how to deal with the issues that are stressing you and find ways to better live with things that bother you…the number are:1-800-784-24331-800-273-8255You need to talk to someone whom you can tell the truth about what is going on in the dynamics of your family. You need to address the fact that you feel that you are not being treated fairly because sometimes this does actually happen in families but parents do not realize that they are doing this until it is brought to their attention.As far as your Sister…your parents are going to have to deal with her and they need to …. but they cannot because they have no idea what is going on with her. Your not telling them is only making the situation more dangerous for her because there is a high possibility that she could wind up pregnant and then you may feel “guilty” because you could have had a hand in preventing it.Talk to your parents…or another adult who could talk to them for you. Be honest and open and mature and kind. You will get much more done with kindness than being mean and rude. Good luck.Peace, Love & Happiness

Baby shower and dad is acting so selfish. Sorry its long but i need help please! Can you please give advice.?

Q: I am 32 weeks pregnant with my first baby and my boyfriend’s mom is throwing me a baby shower this Saturday. I invited my mom, sister, dad and his new wife, half brothers, and half sister. Me and my blood sister are not close with my dad’s side of the family at all. We are mixed with black and white. My mom is white and dad is black. His cousins, aunts, and sisters were always mean to me, my sister and my mom because my dad married a white woman. I haven’t seen any of his side of the family since I was 8 yrs old and I am now 23. They never call and we never call them.Now my dad all of a sudden wants to start inviting people that I never wanted to invite. He told me he need 4 more invitations, I said for who? He said my two cousins want to come and my sisters want to come. So I told him no. The shower is a week away and everyone already RSVP and My boyfriend’s mom is paying for the food so she only has enough for the people who RSVP.He got mad and said I already told them they could come. I said well I don’t really want them there anyway because they were never in my life and they were always rude and disrespectful to us. His sisters act like they are stuck up and they are better than everyone. I saw them at my dad’s wedding and they gave me a dirty look and wouldn’t talk to me because both me and my boyfriend are sleeved with tattoos. So they were just out right rude to us. So my dad was pissed and started to yell and say they are family too and then he said that it was my mom’s fault for raising me this way, like she trained me to hate his family. I just hung up on him and I haven’t talked to him for 2 weeks. He stopped calling. After that he told my mom he wasn’t coming to the shower. So my mom let him have it and now he told his new wife to RSVP. So now I guess they are coming but my mom had to force him. What should I do? I don’t want him to be there if he doesn’t want to go. I just really don’t even want him there now to tell you the truth. I was so upset he made me cry after this whole argument. He is just so selfish. He won’t say sorry either. So I guess i’m just cut off now. How should I talk to him what should I say?

A: This is YOUR baby shower. This is a time for laughter, fun, and family. If your dad is going to try to estrange himself and behave irresponsibly and completely immaturely, than don’t give him an inch!It’s your special day, you go have fun, and as hard as it may be, because I’m sure you feel a colossal amount of emotion building up, try to ignore your dad. This situation will sort itself out eventually, but provoking it at a sensitive time make make it worse. If your dad comes, treat him kindly, but make no mention of what happened at all. If he tries to start just tell him that you’re in no mood and walk away. You’ll deal with him being angry later. Plus, if this is your life he has no right to criticize it.So I suggest you stick on your high horse, have a great party, and get lots of baby gifts!Good luck!

Baby shower and Dad Is acting so selfish. Help! Sorry its long please help! Need advice.?

Q: I am 32 weeks pregnant with my first baby and my boyfriend’s mom is throwing me a baby shower this Saturday. I invited my mom, sister, dad and his new wife, half brothers, and half sister. Me and my blood sister are not close with my dad’s side of the family at all. We are mixed with black and white. My mom is white and dad is black. His cousins, aunts, and sisters were always mean to me, my sister and my mom because my dad married a white woman. I haven’t seen any of his side of the family since I was 8 yrs old and I am now 23. They never call and we never call them.Now my dad all of a sudden wants to start inviting people that I never wanted to invite. He told me he need 4 more invitations, I said for who? He said my two cousins want to come and my sisters want to come. So I told him no. The shower is a week away and everyone already RSVP and My boyfriend’s mom is paying for the food so she only has enough for the people who RSVP.He got mad and said I already told them they could come. I said well I don’t really want them there anyway because they were never in my life and they were always rude and disrespectful to us. His sisters act like they are stuck up and they are better than everyone. I saw them at my dad’s wedding and they gave me a dirty look and wouldn’t talk to me because both me and my boyfriend are sleeved with tattoos. So they were just out right rude to us. So my dad was pissed and started to yell and say they are family too and then he said that it was my mom’s fault for raising me this way, like she trained me to hate his family. I just hung up on him and I haven’t talked to him for 2 weeks. He stopped calling. After that he told my mom he wasn’t coming to the shower. So my mom let him have it and now he told his new wife to RSVP. So now I guess they are coming but my mom had to force him. What should I do? I don’t want him to be there if he doesn’t want to go. I just really don’t even want him there now to tell you the truth. I was so upset he made me cry after this whole argument. He is just so selfish. He won’t say sorry either. So I guess i’m just cut off now. How should I talk to him what should I say?

A: Your dad sounds very selfish, but he also doesn’t sound like one to be reasoned with. you can try very hard to be happy that he came, and act like nothing ever happened, and then be all passive of course. That’s my first reaction. Tho, it’s not right, that’s all it sounds like he’d respond to. If, you think he will respond to your feelings, you can call him and tell him all this. Then you can say, i don’t want you to come to my shower unless you want to. Not because of what mom said. the tattoo thing, i think that was rude. I’ve gotten rude looks because of my tattoos and that’s just immature. So, i wouldn’t have invited them either. If, you just want to make ammends with that side of the family, you can tell your dad, that you can all get together when the baby is born, and have it to only be them at his house or something, then you can show them, and then they can be all happy and not puerile. But, if you don’t want to, that’s not his choice, it’s yours. I wish you the best of luck. This one is tough.