What should I do if my girlfriend is pregnant and won’t tell her parents

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If your girlfriend is pregnant and she won’t tell her parents, then you don’t have to worry, because she will definitely start showing, and you won’t have to worry about saying anything. ChaCha again! [ Source: http://www.chacha.com/question/what-should-i-do-if-my-girlfriend-is-pregnant-and-won%27t-tell-her-parents ]
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How do I tell my parents my girlfriend is pregnant?
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Wow you already have 2 kids at 16? Sorry, I don’t mean to be negative it just shocks me. Anyway, you should sit them down alone with your girlfriend (if she is comfortable with that) and tell them calmly. If you cannot provide for this thi…
What do I do my girlfriend is pregnant how do I tell my parents w…?
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You need to tell your parents as soon as possible. While they may initially be angry, you and your girlfriend need their support.
What isthe easiest way to tell my girlfriends parents shes pregna…?
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one day when they’re both home sit them down and come right out and say it. they may not hate you, but they will be really disappointed in both of you. but most likely they will support you and make sure she has the best care in the world.

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