PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE READ! please?
ok only one person answerd this and it was an instult please answerok i am a sevie. this ninth grader asked me out right. well he was trying to hook me up with his little brother at frist, but that didtn work. so then he asked me out and i was like ummm let me thin kabout it, he is a ninth grader by the way. and this was about 2 months ago, i never answerd his question and how we just kinda hang and walk to class to class ( he is always late he doesnt vare. and also this is a secondary school) anywya i dotn really want to go out with him, cause i dont wnat that im going to do drugs and have sex with you, im easy reputation. so we just hang, but i do kinda lie ihm. but i know he did ( does) pot and stuff. his brother said he quit, i dont belive him. anyway his brother ( the sevie) has smeeles lie smoke for the past few days, and im worries about him, and i told him that doing pot and shi.t is stupid, he says he doenst, but i can smell it on ihm what should i do
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PLEASE LOOK FOR THE SPELL CHECK .Sorry your typing and grammer are terrible..So don’t be insluted. It is very dfficult to concentrate on you rquestion when reading it since one has to figure out what the words are you are trying to use and what you are trying to say..Make your question shorter and use correct grammer and please take yur time typing this question..Dictionaries are great! There’s never a good reason to get involved with someone who has a drug issue. Whoever this guy is probably not the end all be all of romance in your life anyway. You’re very young, you should hold out a year or two more and then think about getting with someone and never let that other person compromise who you are. Last thing, use spell check, that was really hard to read.
What should you do? Pay attention in school and learn spelling and grammer!
tell him that u were lieing to him and that u dont like or like people who do drugs and he sounds realy pathetic soo i would ignore him or tell him.
OK yea you do need to work on your spelling but no worries…umm don’t get hooked up with this guy. Trust me i have been down the drugs road. They are so not cool! If you like the guy then look around,and find someone that you like better. And lose him FAST! drugs are NOT FUN and they are NOT COOL! at all. they will ruin your life fast trust me. please ditch him..before it is to late.
if its not your thing stay away get oon the best you can at school although it sounds like youd never try it yourself peer presure can still get the better of people if he does it thats his choice you wont be able to make him stop unless he wants to
You sound like you have good morals already by not wanting to get involved with someone who does drugs. Very smart. I know while growing up, most kids want to experience and experiment with a lot of things that can be very harmful to them. I am no exception to this. I got myself into a lot of trouble as a youth by following the wrong crowd and allowing my friends to pressure me into things I knew were just not right. Don’t allow yourself to feel pressured into doing anything that you know in your heart that just don’t feel right. If you don’t want to date anyone or even hang with anyone that does drugs.then DON’T. Only you are in control of your life and the decisions you make will effect it one way or another. Sometimes the decisions you make will effect others so always take time to think things out and be honest with yourself and your friends on how you feel. Don’t change for anyone.You may find yourself liking this boy a little now but keep in mind, he obviously has an issue with drugs, especially if he’s lieing to you about doing them. If he’s going to lie to you about that, who knows what else he will lie to you about. As you get older and more experienced in dating, you will understand that honesty and trust are two main keys to making a relationship work. It’s not how cute or how popular a person is that makes them special..it’s what’s inside that truly counts. I know that sounds cliche’ but believe me sweetpea, it is the truth 100%.If you want to keep him as a friend, tell him he has to be honest with you, because even a simple friendship deserves honesty. Would you bare your soul to a friend who lies to you and who is nondependable? If he cannot be honest with you as a friend, he will surely not be honest with you as a boyfriend and you need to move on to better people to hang around then. It’s always better to have just a couple true blue friends than it is to have and basket full of fake ones.Stick to your morals. Stay true to yourself. Beleive me, there are many guys in this world that you will be able to pick and choose from as time goes by. Pick one that makes you feel good about yourself and who you can make feel good about himself. Pick one that can be honest with you and who you can be honest with in return. Pick one that likes you for WHO you are and who you like just as he is. If you have to change yourself for someone else, he’s not worth it and the same goes for the guy.if you think he has to change, then he’s not the right person for you either.I can share many stories with you about this topic (I’ve had my share of heartbreaks and bad choices) but I’ll leave it at this for now.Good luck sweetpea and take your time in choosing the right guy for you :0)marjenl72