What mediation can cause a miscarriage

What mediation can cause a miscarriage

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Stress is thought to be abortogenic and psycho-neuro-immunological pathways have been suggested to be involved in triggering miscarriages. ChaCha On

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Complaining neighbours… what to do?

Q: Heres the thing, we have these neighbours in our street (not even next door to us) who keep giving us letters complaining about various issues. Dogs barking, loud vehicles, offensive gang-like behaviour (wtf??) and us and our noises caused her so much stress that she miscarried her already high-risk pregnancy. These complaints have been going on for almost two years now. I’m well and truly sick of this as it is not us or any other neighbours making noise. Well today I finally had enough after receiving yet another letter from this fruitcake I just lost it. I have now responded (being firm but not rude) and also offered to mediate with her if this will solve her dispute. Is there anything else I should be doing? Was giving her a response letter a good idea? Nobody in the street has dared to respond to her before. She is late 30s in age and not a whingy 70 year old. I dont know what can make this woman happy. Heres the letter I sent her, I’d like your opinions on my approach. ThanksFriday, 16th April 2010Dear Resident of ****************,It is with great sadness that I had read your recent letter (dated 14th April 2010) regarding the continued issue of Offensive Noise Pollution in our street. I feel the need to respond to you and seek to have this matter rectified. My aim is for us all to live in the street together in a civilised manner.Firstly, I would like to thank you for keeping our family, and others in the street, informed of your findings with regards to the current legislation and of Council and Police communications you have had.Secondly, I agree with you that ‘offensive’ noise needs addressing. My aim is a happier environment for my husband, my son and I to live in (on a long-term basis as we are home owners).I happily agree to participate in a mediation session with you should you wish to schedule one. However I do not feel that I have caused you any offence or treated you in a gang-like manner as I believe that I have almost never seen you outside of your house while we have been living at our home (3.5years and counting) let alone had a confrontation with you. I have, on rare occasion, greeted your husband with a friendly “Gday” but other than that I feel that you are plain and simple over-exaggerating if you call this gang-like treatment. I resent your comment. I have searched online and found that there is a Community Justice Centre website that may give you instructions on how to schedule a mediation session on this link: http://www.cjc.nsw.gov.auYou have repeatedly continued to accuse us for vehicle noise that is disrupting your life. I can understand if you are talking of semi-trailers, Harley Davidson bikes or the similar but the two vehicles owned by my husband and I have small exhaust systems that have been factory installed by Toyota and Mitsubishi. Neither of which violate ANY decibel limitations currently in place by the RTA nor do I feel that we leave the street like “hoons” to go to work with excessive disruption to you let alone my sleeping son in his baby seat of my vehicle. We too are hard working, honest, good Church-attending Christians and live a peaceful life. We are well-educated people and do not believe that there should be any cause for neighbourhood disputes such as these issues you mention. Please, let us work together.I do sympathise with you about your miscarriage last year. They are difficult times to go through but with the family you mention, I am certain that they have supported you through the tough time. I too was pregnant last year and delivered our son in October. We are truly blessed and I wish you every happiness with the same.While I was pregnant (and at home), the only noise that I did hear coming from a vehicle was from the brakes of our postman’s bike. I’m sure you have heard him squeak by each morning but other than that I felt that I could relax and enjoy my nesting time prior to the birth without any great deal of stress.If I can be of any other assistance to you with regards to the “Noise Pollution” that you have unfairly directed at my residence during the last 12 months, please let me know so that we can resolve the issues together as neighbours. Neighbourly regards,*******Yes I was nice enough not to include FOAD at the end hahaStephen – I am not loud, we are houses away from eachother and I do not play loud music, yell/scream or rev my car. We are at work every day and in the evenings our 6mth old is fast asleep. Definately not noisy at all!

A: I like your letter. If she feels she needs to send you a letter, I think you are well within your neighborly rights to respond. But, respond only once, don’t make it an ongoing thing. Since you’re not aware of what “noise” she is referring to, you may want to include a phone number to allow her to immediately contact you when the noise arises. This way, you know what she considers “noise”. And, if she again tells you that you’re too noisy, you can ask why she didn’t contact you and make you aware. Document all activity between you and your neighbor, just in case this turns into something more.

My Ex Wife continues to interfere in my life even though we have been divorced for more than 6 years!!!?

Q: A little history…….I was married to my ex wife for 5 years and got divorced over 6 years ago. We have a son (now 10) who I have regular contact with. I got married again 4 years ago and have a wonderful, full relationship with my wife. I have 2 step-kids (15 and 17) and a 2.5 year old, all of which who I love dearly. My ex-wife has been a thorn in all of our sides since we got together!!! From the smallest things (changing contact weekend due to work commitments etc.) to the largest (my present wife had a miscarriage and my ex took it upon herself to tell my son causing a “your baby died” incident). I have broken off contact with my son for the last few months because I just can’t deal with the stress, she continually sends me spiteful letters (because I know refuse to contact her on the phone!) saying what harm I have caused to my son etc. etc. My wife has put up with it for this long but a stand needs to be made or I will lose her too!! Is there a way fo me having contact with my son without having to have any dealings with my ex???? If i didnt have to see her or speak to her life would be fabulous but I still want to see/have contact with my son. My ex has suggested mediation but what is the point, she will always be in the right in her view and will carry on with the spiteful mail etc. She has been sending me solicitors letters saying I have damaged my son and he has all sorts of mental problems?? I have never seen evidence of this and seems strange that he has not seen me for 3 months or so but it is my fault?? Anyone any ideas???

A: What you’re doing now is punishing your son. Put a restraining order on her limiting contact.http://dads-house.org/\\\\\\\