How should i tell my boyfriend i think i’m pregnant without freaking him out

How should i tell my boyfriend i think i’m pregnant without freak…?

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You should definitely tell your boyfriend you are pregnant. Try calmly explaining it to him, and assuring him that you love him. ChaCha on and good luck!

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