First time sex?
When you have sex for the first time, how long do the women bleed for, I know it varies between women, but is it hours, days.?
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How To Know if You’re Ready For SexFrom Mike Hardcastle,Your Guide to Teen Advice. The first time can be the worst time if you aren’t really ready. Make sure you are before you do anything!Difficulty: AverageTime Required: yearsHere’s How:1.Know yourself – ask yourself if the situation “feels right” and if you really trust those feelings.2.Know your would be partner – ask yourself how well you know the person you are thinking of being with and if you care for them and trust them.3.Know your reasons – whatever your reason be sure it is worth giving something away that you will never get back.4.Know how your parents feel about you having sex – you may need/want their support and confidence someday, make sure that you have it well in advance.5. Know the risks – heart break, regret, pregnancy, STDs, and HIV (AIDS) can all happen the first time you have sex.6.Know how to protect yourself – condoms with spermicide are the best protection for sexually active teens. The Pill only protects from pregnancy.7.Know that there is no 100% protection against unwanted outcomes if you have sex, only abstinence can totally protect you.8.Know the law – in many states you have to be a certain age before you can legally agree to have sex and there are some sex acts that are illegal.9.Know what sex is – oral sex, anal sex, lying on top of each other naked and heavy petting are all sexual contact that can result in STDs or HIV (AIDS). Wear a condom!10.Know there is NO going back – once you let go of your virginity it is gone forever! Make sure you are ready to say good bye to that part of yourself.Tips:1.If you have any second thoughts STOP immediately until you are completely sure.2.If you can’t say “penis”, “vagina”, “condom”, or “intercourse” without laughing you probably aren’t ready.3.You can NOT get pregnant through oral or anal sex, but you can get STDs.4.The age at which you are “allowed” to have sex is called the age of consent and is different depending on where you live and your sexual orientation.5.Sex is not bad, dirty or wrong, but it is a BIG step to take. If you can’t be mature about protecting yourself from risks, you shouldn’t be “doing it”.What You Need:·A trusted partner.·A private place.·A condom.Sex Essentials for TeensFrom Mike Hardcastle,Your Guide to Teen Advice.The most important things teens should know about sex.Sex; the mere thought of it can be overwhelming. There is so much to think about, so much to worry about, and so much that can go wrong. Whether you are sexually active or not, knowing the facts about what sex is, and what it is not, is very important.Sex is. * both physical and emotional in nature. * risky; you can get pregnant, catch an STD (that may be with you for the rest of your life), have your heart broken or your ego bruised, or feel let down and disappointed when it is over. * a milestone; you only get one chance to lose your virginity so you should make every effort to ensure the memory is a good one and that the timing is really right for you AND your partner. * not to be taken lightly or treated as recreation. * best when it is a personal expression of caring between two people. * messy and full of strange, sometimes embarassing noises.Sex is NOT. * a way to make somebody love you or make a commitment to you. * a test of your love for or devotion to your partner. * a measure of how mature or grown up you are. * a good way to get back at your parents or assert your independence. * a leisure activity. * always fun or enjoyable; there will be time when you will wonder if it was really worth it.Remember, when you have sex for the wrong reasons only you have something to lose!If you are sexually active there are some important things you should know about the sex act itself.There is so much more to think about than “am I doing this right” when having sex yet ironically, this is the thing people tend to worry about the most. Rest assured that there really is no right or wrong way to “do it”, but there are laws surrounding how old you have to be in order to have sex (age of consent laws), and what constitutes consensual sex (statutory rape laws, date rape laws, and laws surrounding ones ability to give consent to sex).Must Know Facts About Sex * Unless you want to get pregnant (and you shouldn’t want this if you are a teen), birth control is NOT optional, it is a must. * The only protection against STDs for sexually active people is a barrier method like a condom, this is a safe sex MUST even if you are using something else for birth control. * Oral sex is sex and some STDs, including HIV and AIDS can be transmitted orally, a barrier method (like a condom) must be used for this type of sex as well. * If your partner is under the age of consent, intoxicated or under the influence of drugs (prescription or street), if s/he is pressured or threatened in any way (including threats to reputation or name calling), if s/he says “no” or “stop” at any point you CAN NOT legally engage in sex — any or all of the scenarios could result in your being charged with rape. * Intercourse occurs when there is penetration of the male sex organ (penis) in the female sex organ (vagina), but sex can still happen without intercourse. It is best to think in terms of sexual activity WITH intercourse and sexual activity WITHOUT intercourse when deciding if you are considered sexually active. FYI: many people consider kissing a sexual act. * You can get pregnant, or catch an STD, the very first time you have sex or the very first time you have sex without protection. * Birth control and STD protection must be used properly to be effective. Missed pills and doubled up condoms are the most common misuse of birth control and can result in pregnancy or STD transmission. * There is no right or wrong way to have intercourse but if it hurts, or if it doesn’t feel right emmotionally, you should stop right away.Must Have Checklist * A willing partner who is legally able to consent to sex. * Effective and properly used birth control. * STD protection, a male or female condom. * Realistic expectations about what sex will, and will not, mean for you. * A safe place to engage in sex. * The emmotional maturity to understand that sex has consequences beyond the obvious things like pregnancy and STDs. * Respect and trust (ideally, based in love) between you and your partner.Let’s Talk About Sex!Top 20 facts about The First TimeYour Body 1. You can get pregnant (and boys, you may not carry the baby, but you still “get pregnant”). 2. The only forms of birth control that work with any reliability for the inexperienced are; condoms, birth control pills (taken for at least a month before), female condoms, sponge, spermicide, depro-provera (given by a doctor well in advance), norplant (minor surgery required well in advance), IUD and diaphram (both need a doctor). 3. Rythm and Cycles require some real experience and are NOT for first timers. 4. Standing up right away or jumping up and down will not prevent pregnancy. 5. You can get an STD, and even AIDS, the first time. 6. Only condoms (female and male), preferably with a spermicide, can give you any protection against STDs and AIDS. 7. The only 100% perfect protection against AIDS, STDs, or pregnancy (for adults and teens) is NOT having sex. 8. You probably won’t know what you are doing or if you are doing it “right” – try not to worry too much about it, as long as it is consentual there is no one “right” way. 9. Your body may not cooperate, even if your mind wants to be having sex, your body will have an opinion too. 10. You can change your mind and say “NO” whenever you want to before doing it – just because you agreed to have sex doesn’t mean you have to go through with it.Your Feelings 1. It will NOT go the way you plan, it is best to plan only the birth control, time and place. 2. If you are a girl; it will not feel very good – if you are a boy; it will be over so fast you won’t know for sure how it felt. 3. You WILL be nervous and maybe a little scared – not necessarily in a bad way. 4. You will feel different about yourself and the other person – not necessarily in a bad way 5. . You will NOT suddenly be a woman or a man. 6. You may feel guilty that you are actually wanting to have sex – try to remember sex is perfectly natural and normal and not something to feel guilty about. 7. As long as you know you are ready, and care about the person you are with, you will enjoy yourself. 8. If you don’t respect your partner, or you know they don’t resepct you, you will have regrets. 9. If you love, or are loved by your partner, you may still have regrets. 10. Regrets are normal. You have lost something – your virginity – it is natural and normal to mourn that loss.How To Have SexFrom Mike Hardcastle,Your Guide to Teen Advice.Some tips to help you have sex safely and responsibly.Difficulty: AverageTime Required: LOTSHere’s How: 1. Talk about it with your partner-to-be well before hand and know that you are both sure. If there are any doubts, stop here, abstinence in a relationship is normal and “OK”. 2. Go over your birth control needs and options and make sure that you have waited long enough for the choice you make to be effective. Consider talking with a friend or family member about their experiences. 3. Use a condom no matter what other birth control arrangements have been made and regardless of what your partner-to-be tells you about his/her sexual history. 4. Do not be drunk, on drugs or otherwise unable to make an informed decisison, and make sure that your partner-to-be is in a decision making state. 5. Make sure that you care about your partner-to-be and that you are not “doing it” for reasons other than what YOU feel. Looking cool, fitting in or just wanting to lose your virginity are not good reasons to have sex. 6. Go somewhere comfortable, quiet, private and (preferably) nice. Choose a place where you are unlikely to be interrupted. 7. Don’t think too much about how nervous you are, relax and take a deep breath. This should be something you WANT to do. 8. Spend a long time kissing and caressing your partner. This is called “foreplay” and the more there is of it, the better. 9. Talk to your partner, say kind, gentle and loving things. First say with words what you are about to express with your body. 10. As you get into it never stop listening to what your partner says and remember he/she has a right to stop no matter how far things have gone. 11. Slowly undress each other paying close attention to your partner’s body language – are things moving too fast, or do they seem on target? If you sense any hesitation at this point you should slow down or stop. 12. As you kiss and start to relax listen to what your mind tells you to do, follow your instincts and your partners cues. 13. Enjoy what you are doing, take time to get to know your partner’s body and let them get to know yours. You never get another first time or another first time together. 14. Before moving on to intercourse (penetration) make sure that you both still want to “go all the way”, it is hard to turn back and can’t be undone. Sex is not a test of love, it is a way of expressing it. 15. Follow your instincts and listen to your heart. By the time you are physically ready for intercourse you should be relaxed and comfortable enough to let nature take it’s course.Tips: 1. It is best if you feel deeply (and even better if you feel love) for your partner; emotionally empty sex is always a let down. 2. There is more than pregnancy to worry about when having sex, you must also think about STDs and the emotional after effects. 3. As hard as it sounds don’t think too much about what it will be like, this is asking for problems, performace anxiety and disappointment. 4. Foreplay is essential as it gives you time to get used to the new feelings (both emotional and physical) that you are sure to have – don’t cut it short and don’t be afraid to stop at this point if you start having doubts. 5. There is no such thing as owing someone sex. You can talk about it for weeks, get the birth control handled, be “right into it” and still change your mind.What You Need: * Condoms·Birth Controlhttp://teenadvice.about.com/cs/sexuallya.http://teenadvice.about.com/http://teenadvice.about.com/library/week.http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/sexuallya. most women actually don’t bleed. The bleeding is caused by the tearing of the hymen – some women don’t have an intact hymen because they were either born that way or it was ruptured when they were younger and they didn’t even notice. If you do bleed – it probably won’t last more than several minutes
It all depends on you. Each woman is different. For me it was just when I went to the bathroom afterwards (wiped). Other than that I didn’t have to wear a panty liner or anything. I have never heard of anyone bleeding for hours or days. Good Luck 🙂
This is not something anyone can answer for you, not all women bleed when they first have sex and if they do there is a lot of variation between how much and for how long they bleed – it also depends how a person has sex, of course if not penetrative penis to vaginal sex there is no need for there to be anything that would involve bleeding. If a woman bleeds during the first time having penetrative penis to vaginal sex it can be down to two things – hymen breaking or vaginal splitting. The hymen breaking does not always result in pain or bleeding, and if a woman is fully aroused then penetration should neither be painful nor cause vaginal splitting for there to be blood – the idea that a woman should hurt the first time she has sex, or that she should bleed, is total myth. If bleeding does occur it could be something very slight, however with the vagina there is mucosa, this is similar to skin but without the protective layer, it is essentially the same as within your nostrils – because this is so delicate when it is split it may bleed for a few days because that delicate mucosa may be repeatedly torn from movement, it can also produce a lot of blood because during sex women are normally aroused so the blood rushes to the vagina and vulva.It is all a matter of hit and miss, some women may bleed, others don’t, some may bleed a lot, some may only bleed a little, there is no way of a woman knowing which she’ll fall into – she can however make sure to avoid vaginal splitting and of course will know if her hymen is already broken or not prior to sex.I myself did not bleed at all, I did however bleed when my hymen broke long before I had sex, it was only enough to see a small amount of pink discharge on my dildo.
If the man knows what he is doing, then you won’t bleed, at least not for long though!
Everyone is different you may not even bleed at all, but if you do its not usually very long maybe and hour or so if that.
not everyone bleeds.myself i didnt realise i was bleeding to i went to the loo afterwards.it only lasted a couple of minutes..but it’s different for every woman
Well it all depends on the woman. Some dont bleed at all. If your comfortable with your partner and things are done in a relaxed pace it should be fine. Some woman also dont bleed because their Hymen has been broken already. (hymen-layer of skin up inside towards the cervix) It can break because of many things, tampon usage, masturbation etc. So it basically depends on you. Me personally I had some light for a few days, no biggy.
Not all women bleed, just depends on the person but its not like you giving blood, you just lose a little.
i didnt bleed the first time it was the second time wasnt expecting that! its only a few drops not worth the worry enjoy have fun but be careful
I don’t know every woman is different. I did not bleed at all my first time & many of my friends didn’t neither. I doubt it will be more then a couple minutes i have never heard of it lasting days or hours/
Usually it’s for just a little while but some women don’t bleed. I never did.
I never bled.It doesnt always happen
I didn’t bleed, just make just your either really tuned on or you have lube available.
some women don’t bleedmostly though, just a few minutes